The role of sex in a relationship is something that many men forget.
If you’re married, or divorced it’s quite possible you have forgotten the role that sex plays in a real human relationship.
All men know it innately, yet the blinds are pulled over their eyes by insipid social programming.
Be true to your nature as a man.
Remember what you are capable of.
The role of sex in a healthy relationship
1) Sex is a gift from the man to the woman
I am sick to my stomach of reading and even hearing from woman (ones I haven’t fucked, obviously) of how sex is for a “man’s needs”. The implication being regular sex is something a woman ‘tolerates’ because a man ‘needs it’.
This may well be true in relationships where the man is crap in bed.
Being crap in bed is a socially-imposed abomination of a man’s true nature.
The reality is that good sex is a gift.
It is a gift of pleasure.
When you fuck a woman properly, you give her the ultimate pleasure in her life. If a woman is 25 years old, in that moment where you are methodically pounding her into oblivion whilst holding her face and staring into her eyes, she is experiencing emotions and feelings that are unsurpassed in intensity by anything else in the prior 24 years of her existence.
What does this act of giving require from the woman?
It requires nothing – other than her physical and emotional submission to you.
(forget the woman being on top and fucking you. Yes, this can be a fun game, but it is a novelty only and not true sex.)
What does this act require of the man?
A proper screw demands peak physical performance from a man. It demands strength, athleticism, endurance and cardiovascular fitness. If I fuck my woman good for an hour solid, how many calories have I burned? If I lift her up, or throw her around in some fashion, how much strength am I using. How much mental control am I using to control my own orgasm, so that I can take her to the peak of ecstasy for the sacrifice of my own pleasure?
Yes, sex is a gift from a man to a woman.
And the gift should be repaid. With cooking, cleaning and other household duties.
2) Sex is a demonstration of the man’s value
In a healthy relationship, incredible sex is what stops the woman from becoming complacent.
The quality of the sex is what causes the woman to value the man above all else.
Only in a sick relationship that has broken down, where there is no regular sex – or worse, the man has to ask for sex – will the woman become bored and start evaluating her options. She looses sight of the man’s value as a partner, as he is not demonstrating it.
In a healthy relationship constant, dominant sex – that is the best she has ever had – keeps your woman on her toes.
She will constantly think to herself:
“Oh my God: if he can do this to me, any other woman (that could be better looking, or sexier than me) would be dying to keep him, if he fucked her like he’s fucking me”.
By constantly rocking his woman’s world and never allowing sex to get boring, a man keeps his woman in a state of constant desire where the erotic tension of power is never diffused.
3) Sex is the primary emotional connection between the man and the woman
Forget all the bullshit about deep and meaningful conversations.
Forget all the fucking lies about mutual understanding and being ‘soul mates’.
Sex is the direct pathway between a woman’s soul and yours.
Sex is the most basic, primal and raw act between two human beings.
Those close to death experience an overpowering urge to fuck. There is nothing that bonds two biological, living organisms more than the act of mating.
Every man knows that when sex is good and regular, you feel emotionally close to a woman. As soon as the sex stops in a relationship, the emotional connection breaks down.
Many men naively allow themselves to become embroiled in emotionally distant relationships, after wrongfully assuming that sex always dries up and gets boring in a relationship.
If you are not regularly fucking, you are emotionally distant from your partner – and she will be craving that emotional bond from another source.
4) Sex is a demonstration of power
Who wants the power in a relationship?
The man wants to be in charge, as he is naturally entitled to be.
Sex is a direct, unforgettable and unsurpassable demonstration of a man’s power over his woman. When you physically dominate someone to the extent that their eyes roll back in their head and they can’t sit down for a day, they know exactly who is in charge.
Regular mindblowing sex ensures that your woman does not forget this.
A healthy relationship is one where the male holds power. When you let the sex slip, you let the power slip. And it’s a downhill slope from there.
5) Sex is a tool to resolve conflict
Sex is the most important building block of a relationship between a human male and a human female.
Just to remind yourself of this fact, look outside the human species to the rest of the animal kingdom.
What else is there, other than procreation? Life and death, baby.
When a woman is upset about something, it will soon be forgotten after a good fuck. A proper fuck puts things into perspective and will bring out positive forgiving emotions in her.
The bonding time directly after a good screw is the best and only time to talk about important relationship items that might be the cause of any conflicts. In this state, where you have just directly demonstrated your power and value, you will both come to an easy understanding.
6) Sex is a healthy passtime
In the West, we have become distanced from our true sexual natures.
Such is the extent of our vapidity, that we fester and rot with our ‘lovers’ in front of the television.
What would people have traditionally done, prior the popularization of television?
That’s right, they would have been screwing!
I don’t watch TV in my house. I work hard, I play hard. That means, when work is completed, it’s time for fucking.
Look at couple behavior in nations such as the Caribbean and South America, that have been subjected to a lessor degree of corrupt social programming. How do couples pass the time, when they are not working?
They spend their evenings fucking. Fact.
The average American sex life of a 10 minute screw 2-3 times a week, is an unhealthy abomination.
An hour a day is a sensible expectation from a healthy relationship, with a live-in partner.
And the best thing about fucking is that it is incredible for your body. It increases testosterone levels, optimizing your overall hormonal health. It is excellent for your cardiovascular system and if you really go at it in furniture-smashing style – as you should be – it is a useful adjunct to your strength training regime.
We are designed and intended as human monkeys to fuck for multiple hours per day.
A healthy relationship is an expression of this.
Until next time.