You’ve been lied to, son.
You’re a good man and you thought you were doing the right thing.
You did what they told you.
They don’t understand what a real man is, son. Truth is, some things you just gotta figure out yourself.
Your marriage went down the toilet son and here are the reasons why.
15 Real Reasons Why Marriages Fail
1 – You didn’t lead her
This is #1 for a reason.
It’s hard for young guys to understand.
Our society does not teach men to lead anymore. Unless you had a strong father who led your mother around by the hair, you probably swallowed the giant lie of the “equal relationship”.
Men: woman need somebody to take charge. They need somebody to lead and guide them through life. When this isn’t happening, they feel inwardly lost and unsatisfied.
The big things count. Make the major decisions. Make sure you are in control of the household finances. Make sure you set a clear direction for the family.
2 – You let her get away with too much
A marriage is a slippery slope.
If you let her get away with one thing, she will learn you’re not going to hold her to account. She will lose her respect for you.
It is a man’s job to hold his wife to account, when she acts poorly.
Let me guess: bad manners, swearing, rudeness and lack of respect were not properly challenged and dealt with.
In a good marriage, the man sets the precedent from day 1 and lets his woman know what she will not be allowed to get away with.
3 – You started asking her for sex
You grandfathers enjoyed their conjugal rights.
They fucked their wives when they wished.
Remember when the relationship was fresh and you would screw her when it felt right, without asking? Back then it was good.
At some point you fucked up and swallowed the lie that men must ask permission to have sex.
A woman wants to be taken according to her man’s will and not hers.
A real man fucks his wife whenever he pleases and never asks permission. She will always be wet for you, when you take her with force.
Avoid this situation in your next relationship and get a relationship contract to re-establish your conjugal rights.
4 – You let the sex get boring
You listened to the idiots and the weak minded pussies surrounding you. You didn’t acknowledge the true role that sex plays in society.
You didn’t understand that she needs to be kept constantly fucked to keep her checked and in her natural position.
You were weak and didn’t keep up your training of body and mind.
You became out of touch with your natural instincts of sexual dominance and sexual creativity.
In a healthy relationship, sex is the glue that binds man and woman together.
5 – You were too nice to her
Woman don’t want a “nice guy”. They think they do, because they have been fed this bullshit by the modern media.
They don’t want gifts. They don’t want constant compliments. They do not want to be put on a pedestal.
What they really want, is someone to be strict with them and keep them in their place.
In a good marriage, a husband is nice to his wife when he makes love to her. He rocks her universe for hours with sexual mastery and this is the only “nice” treatment she needs.
At all other times he is staunch and does not yield to her.
6 – You didn’t agree the rules up front
You didn’t have a clear framework of agreed rules in place from day 1 and this was why your marriage went down the toilet, son.
Any relationship needs rules. Business relationships require contracts.
Let me guess, you thought you were in love and it would all work itself out between you, right?
A good relationship is an exchange of power and resources, based on agreed terms. Love does not come into it.
Avoid this mistake next time. Set rules from day 1.
7 – You treated her as an equal
Men and woman are not equal. They never have been.
Men and woman have different strengths and weaknesses. Men are good at protecting and providing. Woman are good at nurturing and caring.
When you treat a woman as your equal she instantly starts to lose respect for you.
A woman innately craves a man that is stronger than her. She craves a man that is better than her. She wants to look up to her man.
Be that man. Be confident in yourself and look lovingly down at her as your lessor, in the same way you look down at a child.
8 – You swallowed the myth that raising children is hard work
The biggest lie of the last 50 years is that it is hard work for a woman to stay at home and raise children.
Perhaps it was during some generations who had it tough. What is hard about pushing a pram down a beautiful tree lined street in a prosperous, peaceful country on your way to enjoy a caramel latte?
Nothing comes more naturally to a woman that caring for her children. Day in. Day out.
Today’s woman is lazy and looks for any excuse to avoid work. She made her excuses and you swallowed them.
9 – You let her go out to work
The biggest reason for the giant rise in divorce rates is the increase in working mothers.
The bond between a mother and its offspring is the most powerful emotion that the woman will ever experience in her life.
Her entire biological reason for existence is to bond with her child and raise it.
Mothers have been sold the lie that they want to work in an office, rather than nurture and care for their own flesh and blood that they have bought into this world. Let me guess, you paid for another woman to raise your children whilst yours ‘went out to work’?
Sorry son, but you were lied to.
A woman that cannot dedicate 5 years of her life to her children is nothing but a toxic and worthless cunt.
A real woman stays at home and dedicates her life to her children, until they are all at school.
10 – You let her become the centre of the universe
Soon after you got married, things all started to become about her.
She wasn’t happy with the housework. She wasn’t happy with this, or that.
Her work was the most important consideration of all! All family plans had to take her career into account.
And as a nice guy, you went along with it right? After all, this is an equal relationship.
A woman does not want to be centre of the universe. She wants to feel as if she is playing the part of an orbiting planet in an overall universe that is spinning according to a clearly determined scheme.
In a good relationship, the man is God and he makes the universe spin. The woman is a part of God’s universe.
11 – You didn’t set a clear direction for the family
Sorry son, but if you didn’t have a plan, you failed. Woman need to know where they are headed in life. They need to feel secure and comfortable and protected.
Let me guess, you didn’t step up and lead the way?
You didn’t have a clear strategy for the family’s goals over 5 or 10 years. You didn’t tell you wife what her role was in this strategy.
Do better next time and run your family like a company director.
12 – You let her argue with you
A woman wants to argue like a child wants to be be rude. She is testing the boundaries, to see what she can get away with.
There is never an excuse to argue. Rationale adults communicate sensibly.
Let me guess, you engaged with her arguments and she ended up winning?
A man does not argue with a woman. It is beneath him.
If she starts any of that rubbish, you take her over your knee son and give her the spanking she deserves.
13 – You blamed her and not yourself
Throughout this, you were blind. You looked at her behaviour and thought the bitch was mad.
What you didn’t realise was that her behaviour was a direct reaction to all the things you weren’t doing.
The problem was you thought you were doing all the right things. The things that society told you to do.
You were lied to son.
Step up next time and take the lead.
14 – You didn’t prioritize yourself
You let yourself go. You thought you were doing the right thing, helping her out from her ‘hard job’ of looking after the children.
You should have been down the gym looking after yourself.
A man must keep himself in shape at all times.
A woman’s role is to look after her man. She relishes this. She loves this. She does not need or want help.
The only help you need to give her is a soul-shattering fuck – every single night.
15 – You didn’t spank her when she deserved it
If you think back, you know in your heart there were 100s of times she needed to be spanked.
You can remember all the times she acted up. All the childish behaviour.
And you accepted it, like a weak minded deer stuck in the headlights.
Like a railway train out of control, she careered forward – aware that no matter what she did there would be no discipline.
A woman – like a child – needs discipline in her life.
Step up son.
A man is the head of household.