It can be helpful to review the scenario faced by many modern men today:
Perhaps you’re somewhere between 25 – 45 years old. You might be starting to think your party days are coming to an end, if they are not already well behind you. You have a greater sense of self & character than you did in your younger years and you are beginning to think about what the future holds. About those normal and honorable things such as marriage and raising a family.
Many men even have one failed marriage behind them already.
Perhaps you’re not thinking of a starting family, but simply looking for a decent girlfriend and to settle into a loving long-term relationship.
You may even already be married and recognise the below problems in your own relationship.
These days, when a man considers entering into a relationship with a women, it is against an ugly backdrop:
Somewhere around 46% of marriages end in divorce.
This means that if you choose to get married the chances of that marriage ending in happiness are akin to the flipping of a coin.
Worse than that, Western males are flipping a coin as to whether they will have to deal with the impacts of divorce on man’s life. Financial consequences and effects on child custody are major life-changing impacts and should not be left to chance.
Today’s female is not family oriented
The average western women in 2016 is far more likely to give priority to growing a successful career than to growing a successful family.
This presents the modern man with two major quandaries.
Firstly, who is going to do the cooking and cleaning, if your women is spending all her time fussing around her office job?
Secondly, what does this career-focus spell for any future children of the marriage? Will this women be happy to take 5 years off work to nurture and care for her children before they are of school age, or will she (more than likely) wish to enroll them in childcare from an early age?
You will often see babies from 6 months of age deposited in day care centres, from 7am-7pm, 5 days a week – whilst the mother goes out to climb the career ladder in her office job.
The chances that your next women expects to give up work and be a stay at home mum as part of a traditional family are less than 10%.
The modern man needs to give serious consideration as to whether this is in the best interests of his future family.
Domestic violence against men and other forms of abuse are a huge and growing problem. It is a hidden problem, unreported on by the media. In fact, 50% of all domestic abuse is now perpetrated by women.
This stems from two sources
- Behaviorally masculated and progesterone imbalanced women
- Behaviorally feminized and testosterone imbalanced men
In fact, this problem is so insidious that many millions of men are sitting in abusive relationships – without even realising – since they have been brainwashed by the media into believing that an incompetent buffoon of a husband and a nagging wife is a natural state of affairs.
These men suffer depleted testosterone and live unfulfilled lives without even knowing it.
So once again, when you establish a relationship with a modern women, your chances of ending up with a women that will attempt to subject you to some form of domestic abuse are no better than the tossing of a coin.
The myth of the “equal relationship”
I don’t know what fool invented the term “equal relationship”, but he deserves to be shot. We have become indoctrinated to believe that a relationship based on 50/50 power sharing is the healthy and right thing.
The problem with these so-called “equal” relationships is that neither male nor female can be satisfied and happy, since neither are fulfilling their innate biological role. The male is innately programmed to lead, the women to be lead.
- A women has an innate biological role to be impregnated, give birth and nurture.
- A man has an innate biological role to impregnate, protect and provide.
In modern relationships, this these roles have become conflicted and unclear as people deviate from their natural, wholesome and god-given instincts.
The chances that your next potential girlfriend will be expect an equal relationship: at least 80%.
If the modern man wants to live a fulfilled life and reach his true potential as a man, he should run away from the “equal relationship” faster than you would a rabid dog.
An equal relationship equals an unhappy marriage.
Rudeness and lack of respect
Modern women have been raised in a time of ‘feminism’ gone mad.
Men are routinely portrayed in the media as bumbling buffoons of no value and women shown as leaders and super-heroes coming to the rescue. Traditional masculine and feminine traits have been shamefully de-valued.
This represents a sick gender-role reversal that is deeply unhealthy.
Many women will think nothing of casually telling a man to ‘shut up’ or rolling her eyes at him in a sign of condescension. And many men have been programmed to become accustomed to this and think it completely normal and acceptable.
Odds are 80% that the next women you consider dating will be rude and disrespectful by default.
Rates of depression in men are higher than at any other time in our history.
- Up to 20% of people experience symptoms of depression.
- 10 times more people suffer from major depression now than in 1945
- The average age of first onset of major depression is 25-29
Women today are:
- Depressed due to involvment with weak males, not leading, dominating & guiding them.
- Unable to become emotionally fulfilled, due to conflict between programmed social values and innate biological role
Men today are:
- Depressed as they are involved with pseudo-dominant, chaotic females unwilling to submit to the male’s natural authority.
- Unable to reach emotional fulfillment, due to a lack of support for his biological imperative to protect, provide and lead.
So, there’s a roughly 20% chance that your next girlfriend will suffer from clinical depression or even make you depressed via her behavior.
Do you believe in your heart that these are positive trends for society and the future generations of your family ?
This backdrop means that the modern male is faced with a dilemma. The odds of him achieving a happy and balanced relationship where he is able to fill his natural role as protector and provider are stacked against him.
The modern male needs to plan not only for his own happiness but the success & stability of his family and the future generations of his bloodline.
The dilemma need not last for long. There is a simple answer that has been there all along, but you have been programmed not to see it.
They make men happy and they make women happy.
Think of your grandma and grandpa. Did they face any of the above issues? Did they get divorced?
I’d bet they didn’t.