You already know why you should spank your girlfriend.
And you have already agreed the rules of the house.
This article tells you how to go about spanking your girlfriend.
It’s natural for a first timer to be nervous and worry his girlfriend will think he doesn’t know what he is doing.
The goods news is spanking is easy and natural for any strong man!
The secret to delivering a good spanking is mindset.
Adopt an attitude that embodies a head of household mindset. If you act with confidence and internalize this mindset, the rest will come naturally.
The mindset of a head of household
- I am a good man with a strong mind. I have great strength and morals from which I can benefit my partner.
- I am the stronger person in our relationship and it is my place to guide.
- As a man, I have a natural and irrefutable right to rule my household as I see fit.
- It is my natural place and obligation to hand out discipline.
Faith in Judgement
- I believe I have soundly considered the behaviour and the punishment due. I have confidence and faith in my reasoning.
- I have confidence that my judgement is in her best long-term interests, for the betterment of her behaviour and the betterment of our relationship.
- I am spanking my girlfriend fairly, for her benefit.
- I am qualified as a strong-minded man to deliver this judgement and I stand by it irrefutably.
- I care for my girlfriend and wish her to lead a fulfilling life where she becomes the best possible version of herself.
- I am delivering this discipline as a reflection of my love for my girlfriend.
The process of domestic discipline
Determine the crime
Firstly, you need to be crystal clear on what your girl has actually done wrong to deserve this spanking. Identify in your mind the specific behaviour that you object to. Consider this behaviour intellectually and rationalize in your own mind what the crime is and why it is deserving of a spanking.
When you rationalise, make a list to yourself of why the behaviour is poor. This is important, as you will be explaining this to your girl.
Consider in detail what changes in behaviour your expect from your girl in future. Have fair and realistic expectations.
Decide the punishment
Decide a punishment that fits the crime!
Choose whether the spanking will be open hand or if you will use a ruler or your belt. Decide whether she will be over your knee or bending over in some other position.
Don’t sweat this too much, have fun with it!
Determine the time
Decide whether to carry out the spanking in the here and now, or schedule it for a future time.
It is useful to schedule the spanking for a few hours time – or even half an hour. This gives you both time to reflect.
Try to avoid spanking in anger, as this emotion can cloud judgement.
Inform her of the decision
Once you have made up your mind and are confident in your decision, then you need to inform your girlfriend!
Speak calmly and clearly and fully explain in detail:
- Specifically what behaviour has led to this
- Why you consider this behaviour poor
- What is expected of her in the future
- What the punishment will consist of
- When it will take place
Spank the bitch!
Focus on your mindset. Be strong and calm.
Have her get into position. This could be over your knee or whatever you have determined.
Make sure you hurt her!
Don’t neglect her upper legs, which are very tender. If it’s the first time, don’t go overboard. Work up slowly.
Re-explain to her what has led to this, why the behaviour is poor and what is expected in the future. Do this throughout the spanking. Speak to her slowly, strongly and calmly as you would to a sub-ordinate.
I like to give her pussy a little rub, from time to time during the spanking. Just enough to keep her wet. This arousal will bring additional emotional stimulation. This is not the focus! The focus is on delivering the discipline.
Give her a cuddle
After you’ve spanked your girl, she will be very emotional. She may already be tearful from the spanking.
Have her come to you for a little cuddle and check she is OK. Nothing overbearing, don’t forget she has deserved this spanking.
Always fuck your girl after spanking her! She will be emotionally ripe for aggressive, dominant sex and will love it better than ever.
Once she’s been spanked and fucked, the matter is closed. Don’t raise it again.
The best thing about domestic discipline is its ability to negate drawn-out arguments!
Forgive her and move on with the relationship.
Communicate with her about the spanking some time (days or weeks) afterwards. Have her give you her opinion on the discipline and whether she felt it was beneficial for her. Ask whether she has internalized the lesson you taught her. Find out about any misgivings she may have.
Continue to focus and internalize your head of household mindset during this process.
As the man holding the male role in a relationship contract, you are responsible for your partner’s well-being.
Take good care of her and she will love you deeply for it.
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