I see a lot of “How to Fuck” e-books for sale on the Internet.
Each one is telling you something you already know.
This is a bit like selling an e-book called “How to drink water”. It could be a 200 page e-book, separated into distinct and easily digestible chapters – such as “The important of choosing the right glass”, “The first pressing of the lips to the glass” and “How to train for a powerful gulp”.
It’s all bullshit. Just drink the water!
Each and every man already knows how to fuck a woman. It is as deeply innate to him, as his ability to fight another man.
Every man has an innate ability to fight. When presented with a violent situation in which he is attacked, he will fight with his very soul to save his life. He does not think, it comes naturally to him. It is a man’s “killer instinct”.
The reason modern men think they need to “learn” how to fuck is that they have become out of touch with their natural sexual instincts. This is due to conditioning from the media and influences from an unhealthy and sexually repressed society.
In this article I give you information that is better than any “how to fuck” e-book out there. And I’m giving it to you completely free.
Oh – don’t forget to read this all in conjunction with our guide on how to train your penis.
- Understanding our sexual instincts
- Re-connecting with our sexual instincts
- Objectifying your woman
- How to fuck like a cave man
- How to fuck like a porn star
- How to fuck like a demon
- How to fuck like a head of household
- How to fuck like a God
- How to fuck your woman’s soul
The “big secret” of sexual mastery
The thing that the book peddlers don’t want you to know, is that giving a woman the best fuck of her life is incredibly simple. It’s not about what dirty things you say to her. It’s not about what special ‘technique’ you use. I have seen some books talking about counting thrusts! The idea was something like do 8 shallow thrusts, then 1 deep thrust, 7 shallow, 1 deep, 6 shallow, 1 deep… Just like doing ladders in the gym! This is absolute bullshit.
Such techniques would be like telling a professional boxer to do 6 jabs, 1 straight, 5 jabs, 1 straights. Regardless of what their corner says, when a fighter enters the ring his relies on instinct.
The big secret is that there is no secret!
Woman have a natural sexual instinct to be fucked and men have a natural sexual instinct to fuck.
It is yin and yang.
All you need to do is reconnect yourself with your powerful inner sexual instincts via mindset.
Understanding our sexual instincts
To understand ourselves, we need to look back down our own evolutionary history.
Start around 13 million years ago, when scientists reckon humans diverged from chimpanzees, one of ours closest relatives. In chimpanzee society, males will use sexual aggression towards females they want to take. When a male chimp has a mind to it, he will charge at a female, beat her over the head with a branch and then fuck her at his will. The female chimp loves this, as it is a display of the male’s dominance – he is showing traits of physical aggression that will rank him higher in the social hierarchy.
Bonobos – another of our close ancestors – screw virtually all day long. Including all manner of positions, including face-to-face and hand holding!
Bonobos do not pre-meditatively think: “I’m gunna slap this bitch in the face right before she cums”, or “I’m gunna turn her upside down today”. They just do it. It is part of their natural instinct of sexual creativity.
Deep, deep down in the deepest parts of our brain, we are inextricably linked to these monkeys.
Our natural sexual instincts are those of our primate ancestors.
Every man has a natural instinct of sexual aggression and an instinct of sexual creativity.
Understanding the role of sex
It is also helpful to examine what sex actually is.
Firstly, it is the single most emotional and intimate act that can occur between two human beings. When you tie it all back to its roots, a human’s sole purpose is to reproduce before it dies. Sex is the vehicle that creates life and is therefore the most important act of life.
What you need to remember is that sex is inherently mind blowing. So much so, that it forms a natural lifetime bond between two people. Observe this in traditional societies around the world, where adultery is virtually unheard of. In traditional society every man owns his partner and they create and raise children as a family. Mind blowing sex keeps them emotionally bound together.
In traditional society, all men are strong. There is no mental pre-occupation. There is no excessive thinking. No television or state controlled media to influence minds. No xenoestrogens to deplete men’s testosterone levels. No corrupt social movements such as feminism. No over the counter birth control to irreparably destroy women’s hormone levels. There is no such thing as performance anxiety in traditional society. It does not exist. It is not a concept.
Forget the notion that our paleolithic ancestors were primitive people that would fuck for 2 minutes and then walk away. Quite the opposite, our ancestors were pumping every day for hours and using this power to keep their woman in check. That is the primal man that exists within every one of us.
Sex is also the most powerful expression of a man’s masculinity.
Sex is an innately masculine act. Forget the reverse cowgirl, sex is about the man giving the woman his seed. He is sowing the seed of life within her.
When you fuck a woman, you are taking her. You are overcoming her and making her yours. You are expressing to her who your are as a man. For a man, making love is a sexual expression of his self. When you express yourself openly and with faith in your innate goodness as a human, then you transfer this expression of yourself directly into your woman’s soul.
Woman are followers. A woman wants to be sucked into a man’s world. She does not want to lead a life as captain of a ship, she wants to picked up, put on a ship and told where it is going. When she is on the ship, she will devote herself to its journey and do an incredible job of assisting the vessel on the way, with her natural nurturing instincts.
When you fuck a women you express to her your inner captain of the ship. Every man is a captain of the ship. No matter how far between the surface it may be buried by years of social programming, it is there.
Re-connecting with our sexual instincts via mindset
We have become separated from our sexual instincts.
Sex has been degraded with unhealthy social taboos, that distance a man from his own true nature.
This has occurred progressively since the industrial revolution, with the increasing size and complexity of state societies. The typical modern male is distanced from his inner self-awareness. We live in fast-paced modern world, where we are continually bombarded with subliminal messaging, advertising and social pressures. There are many thoughts each moment. “What should I do?”, “What will she think if I do this”, “What will happen if I do that”. We have become distanced from a simpler time, where we would act on instinct, to a world where we sometimes move forward on a roller-coaster, against our wills. This abundance of thoughts is what prevents us from fully connecting with our inner sexual instincts.
This is typified by the phenomenon of performance anxiety. Performance anxiety is the polar opposite to the state of mind that you naturally possess. Performance anxiety is caused by excessive thinking. It is caused by an learned behaviour of thinking about potential negative outcomes. “What if my dick isn’t big enough?”, “What if I can’t last long enough”, “What if her last boyfriend was better than me?”, “What if I can’t get it up?”, “What if she doesn’t cum?”.
Mindset alone will enable you cast aside these corruptions and re-connect with your innate instincts.
To connect with your instincts, you simply need to clear your mind.
Practice mindfulness meditation for 5 minutes a day to assist with this.
You need to approach a fuck, as you would a fight.
That is, being mentally sharp, aware, aggressive and confident.
Above all: mentally clear and living in the moment. You are not thinking of specific punches or kicks that you will throw. You are not thinking of the outcome of the fight. You are relying on your natural instincts to attack and defend, as the situation demands and striving with your soul to dominate your opponent.
Do not think.
Focus your inner aggression and will to dominate.
Harness your inner chimpanzee.
When you enter this mind frame, you will connect with your natural instincts of sexual agression and sexual creativity.
Objectifying your woman
You are probably thinking to yourself: “OK fine – but how the hell am I going to create that mindset and keep it when I’m in the room with my girlfriend?”.
I have an easy and simple answer for you, that will fly in the face of everything you have been told about sex.
See her as an object.
Note I did not say “treat her like an object”. Treating her like an object would imply seeing her as a person and then treating her as on object. I literally want you to “see” her in your mind’s eye in front of you as a toy. A toy of which you are in charge and can play with at your will.
When you objectify your woman, you instantly sidestep all pathways of social conditioning. You revoke your ability to feel pressure, because there is no longer a personality in front of you to judge your actions. There is only a toy, for you to play with, as you desire.
The 6 mind frames of a master lover
So by firstly clearing your mind and then objectifying your woman as a sexual toy, you prime your ability to apply specific mind frames – according to how you wish to play with her.
Below I list 6 mind frames, that you may borrow from or use as inspiration.
Read the words deeply. Feel them. Internalize a mindset that embodies that feeling.
When you are mentally clear and relying on your instincts, your mindframe will determine what you say to her and how you touch her. Humans naturally speak during sex and naturally touch during sex. Allow your instinct to dictate what you say and how you touch her. Don’t read words from a book, or follow instructions from a manual.
Allow your unique sexual expression of your self to flow direct into your woman.
Let me be clear. Each of these lists are only examples and are the way I treat my woman, based on who I am. The point of this article, is that every man has his own inner sexual agression and sexual creativity.
A man does as he pleases with his woman.
Sometimes he will fuck her like a piece of meat. Sometimes he will make tender love to her. This is directed by his sexual character and is an expression of his self.
Fuck her as you please.
She will yield to you.
How to fuck like a cave man
You are mine. I am taking you. I own you.
You are my piece of flesh, who will take my seed. I am going to pump my seed into you like the ripe, fertile, rippling body that you are.
You are a piece of meat whose sole purpose in this world is to be pumped full of my spunk and create my children.
I am a strong.
You are weak and yield to my power.
Growl! Literally practice your growling. It should be loud and aggressive, unrestricted, like a gorilla.
Move her around. Hold her firmly in position. Hold her hands in position with yours. Look directly into her pupils.
How to fuck like a porn star
You are a piece of waste.
You are a worthless whore. I am going to dominate your dirty little holes until you burst.
I am going to stretch and abuse you until you rupture.
I am going to turn you inside out and destroy your body until you explode.
I am going to fuck you so hard that you pass out and when you plead for me to stop I will never relent.
Insult her. Taunt her. Tease her and laugh at her.
Slap her. Choke her. Pinch her
How to fuck like a demon
I will dominate this piece of meat. I am all-powerful.
I will hurt it and smile.
I am going to laugh at it.
I am going to look into its eyes and remain completely unaffected by what it is feeling inside.
I am going to create intense emotion inside this creature and look down upon it with derision like an animal.
I am going to see the fear in its eyes.
I pour my scorn upon this animal.
Verbalise fantasies of her being used for sex by a group of men, or as a prostitute. Evoke emotions of humiliation.
Hold her mouth open. Hold her eyes open. Pull her hair.
How to fuck like a head of household
You are mine.
You are a beautiful little wench here to serve me.
I own you.
You will do all my cooking and cleaning. You are a poor little girl, who depends upon me and will do anything to please me.
You need me.
I will do anything I want with you.
Your role in this relationship is to serve me. I am your better in every respect.
Tell her (whilst she is on her back with her legs up) that this is her natural position in the relationship. Remind her of household duties whilst fucking her hard. Chide her.
Spank her, slap her.
How to fuck like a God
I am your superior.
I look down upon you with pity and love.
I give you pleasure at my will. I create inside you emotions that you have never experienced before and I look on completely unaffected.
I exist above you and I create pleasure in you, for my own amusement.
I smile at your smallness of mind and character, as I bestow upon you pleasures that rock you – with no effort at all on my part.
You are my toy.
I love you as I love a meek and loving animal.
Tell her she is a beautiful little thing. Explain your possession of her.
Hold her face firmly. Cover her mouth with your hand (be careful not to kill her).
How to fuck a woman’s soul
I am a man and you are my woman.
I make you mine.
I open every part of my self to you. I stand before you as a man and you yield to me.
Feel my power.
Feel the unwavering strength of my will.
Feel my soul.
This is my love for you.
Tell her you love her. Tell her she is beautiful. Tell her she is yours.
Stroke her face and body with your finger. Hold her face. Touch her earlobes. Kiss her mouth.